Long Vacation....

Packed myself up and embark on this journey... to look for something that was lost.. to look for something that is precious.. to understand who I am...

Thursday, September 02, 2004

moody again!!~

一开始我只相信 伟大的是感情
最后我无力的看清 强悍的是命运
妳还是选择回去 他刺痛妳的心 但妳不肯觉醒
妳说爱本就是梦境 跟妳借的幸福 我只能还妳

[chorus]
想留不能留 才最寂寞 没说完温柔 只剩离歌
心碎前一秒 用力的相拥着沉默
用心跳送妳 辛酸离歌(看不见永久 听见离歌)

原来爱是种任性 不该太多考虑
爱没有聪不聪明 只有愿不愿意
妳还是选择回去 他刺痛妳的心 但妳不肯觉醒
妳说爱本就是梦境 跟妳借的幸福 我只能还妳

repeat [Chorus]


Came across this article while I'm doing my assignment research...

Women 'should stay single to stay sane'
The key to happiness - and sanity - for women could be to spend the whole of their lives single, research has suggested.

A survey of almost 4,500 men and women found that women who stayed single enjoyed much better mental health than those who had married or suffered a relationship split.

But the same was not true for men, who fared better mentally if they were in a relationship.


The research, published in the Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health, is at odds with the Bridget Jones generation of women who believe they can only be truly happy once they have nabbed a man.

Researchers at the University of London based their findings on the response to a mental health questionnaire of adults under 65 taking part in the British Household Panel Survey.

The team, led by Dr Michaela Benzeval, also found that serial relationships were good for men's mental health, but had an adverse effect on women.

While men did better mentally if they simply lived with a partner, marriage was more beneficial to a woman's mental health.

Break-ups were also painful for both sexes, but women generally took longer to recover.

Women's mental health also got progressively worse the more break-ups they had and the more new relationships they had to start.

And women who remained alone after a marriage split had the worst mental health of all those surveyed, apart from those who were alone immediately after breaking up with a partner.

The researchers said: "Men in first partnerships displayed better mental health than those who remained single, whereas women who remained single displayed equally good mental health to those in their first partnership and better health than those who had experienced a partnership spilt.

"This is further support for the finding that single men display more distress than married men and vice versa for women."

The team suggested that the Government should review the law on cohabitation rights as the lack of financial and property protection leading to security concerns may explain women's poorer mental health than those who marry.

They also said separation and divorce support organisations should target women who experienced multiple splits.


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